Primary Human Developers
This is a free educational booklet created to support
the most important stabilizing forces in a young person’s life:
parents, teachers, and librarians — the primary human developers.
In today’s world, where social media, hyper-sexualized online culture, misinformation, anxiety, and AI influence are reshaping childhood and adolescence, many caring adults feel unprepared. This booklet offers a calm, trauma-aware overview of the pressures young people face, clarifies the role of trusted adults as Primary Human Developers, and introduces the Education to Live Well Resource Guide Series — practical guides on love, relationships, media awareness, habits, self-care, wisdom, and collaboration. It is grounded in care and clarity, and is designed
to be used as a reference parents, teachers, and librarians
can return to whenever questions arise.
Get the 36-page PDF, Free
T e s t i m o n i a l
“7 Keys to Love is a timeless book
— its message is enduring and urgently needed to help counter the strife in the world. This book explores seven types of love that can bring peace and joy to people’s lives. It begins with self-love as the foundation.
Sandy is a master at using charts to convey his ideas simply.
He is also not afraid to address difficult topics — such as pornography within the realm of physical love. The book then progresses to
family love, and finally to spiritual-universal love,
which we need so desperately now.
The book is an easy read, yet challenging to put into practice
— and Sandy shows us how to do this. It also includes wonderful
quotes from many others. I heartily recommend this book
to all who want to enrich their lives.”
Richard Denton, MD (Emeritus)
International Rotarian for Peace & Health
Former Mayor of Kirkland Lake, Canada
Sexual Media Awareness:
Sexual Media Awareness: A Guide to Intimacy in the Digital Age
is a practical, compassionate guide to understanding how modern
sexual media affects the brain, attention, desire, and relationships. Without shame or moralizing, it explains how conditioning forms,
why patterns can feel hard to change, and how stress, loneliness,
and overstimulation often drive behavior more than people realize. Alongside clear science and cultural context, the guide offers simple tools to interrupt habit loops, set healthy boundaries, and gradually rebuild emotional connection and real-life intimacy. The core message is hopeful: awareness restores choice, and intimacy can be rebuilt.
125-page PDF, $7
Evolving Wellbeing
From Stuck Patterns → Healing → Stability → Sacred Life
A skills-based guide for real change.
A practical skills path out of shame, compulsion, and disconnection.
Many people are suffering
— but they don’t know what’s happening to them.
They may look “fine” on the outside while feeling overwhelmed,
stuck in loops, harshly self-judging, or disconnected from meaning.
This guide offers a different path to healing, skill-building, and practice.
Inside, you’ll find a clear 5-stage map of human growth.
A 30-day action plan (one practice at a time)
Coaching maps: why people resist change + what skills build wellbeing
A compassionate framework for real transformation.
56-page PDF, $7
From Self-Limitation to Self-Actualization
This guide offers a clear, compassionate pathway for personal growth:
an 8-phase progression from Self-Limitation to Self-Actualization
— from trauma and disconnection, to integrity, healthy habits, purpose, meaningful relationships, and inner wisdom. It includes practical frameworks such as Trauma Self-Healing, Values & Needs, Need Satisfiers, the Johari Window, and a Meaningful Conversation model
to help you deepen self-awareness and strengthen your relationships.
If you want a simple, visual map for moving from stuck patterns into
a healthier, wiser life, this guide is a powerful place to begin.
33-page PDF, $7